Summer nUUs from Religious Education

Sending Joy and Sunshine to all of you!!

This newsletter is one of the last tasks on my list before I step away from my desk and begin my sabbatical (July 1-August 31)! During my time away I will be visiting some other UU churches and sitting down with fellow religious educators to discuss their lifespan religious education programming and to examine some different church leadership models. I will also be doing some writing, and spending some much needed time with my sons before taking my eldest to his first year of college in August. I will be back September 1st with lots to share with all of you about what I discover in my time away.

While Kirsten is away, you can direct any RE program questions to:
Cat Lyons:  cat@southchurch-uu.org
or
Jen Del Deo: Jendeldeo@southchurch-uu.org 

Thank you to those of you who have already fulfilled the following requests, we have such a great community and we are able to do so much because of our collective participation in the work of our church. If you haven’t already, please:

  • Register your children for the 2019-2020 church year
  • Volunteer for a Summer Sunday, please pick one day that you are willing to help out. Cat and Jen Del Deo will be providing fun lesson plans, and will be present for most classes, but they need additional help- particularly on the Sundays when one or the other is not on site! One hour of your time this summer will make a huge difference!!
  • and… please Join a Volunteer Team for the 2019-2020 church year- there are descriptions of each program HERE

In this post… 

  • South Church Retreat on Star Island
  • Save the Dates – September gatherings!
  • RE Summer Program Outline for Parents and RE Volunteers
  • 10am (one service) Worship will continue this fall!
  • Fall program info and calendar of dates!

South Church Retreat on Star Island- Make time for connecting on beautiful Star Island during the 2019 Star Island Retreat – 4 days of rest, fun and reflection starting Saturday, July 27th. Stay for 1, 2, 3 or 4 nights. There will be children’s programming each morning led by Jen Del Deo, daily chapels, and activities for for all ages. More information at coffee hour on most Sundays, or contact Janis Wolak at janis.wolak@gmail.com. We hope to see you on the island!

Save these Dates in September:

  • Sunday, Sept. 1st: Weather permitting, we will be meeting at the Urban Foresty Center for an end of Summer RE celebration. Children can be dropped off between 9:30 and 10 am before parents head to church, and then you can pick them up after church concludes (around 11:15) Please put sunscreen and bug spray on your kids!
  • Sunday, Sept. 8th: Family Orientation Potluck for all RE families after church 11:45a-1:30p
  • Sunday, September 22nd: RE Volunteer Training Lunch*, 11:45a-1:30 – *Childcare available if requested
  • 8th grade families: Coming Of Age orientation: Friday, Sept 20th. 6pm at #73 Court St
  • Senior Youth Families: Parent and youth orientation Saturday, Sept 28th. 6pm (youth will stay after for an overnight!)

RE Summer Program Outline- Religious Education continues through the summer for children of all ages! Our nursery is open, as usual, from 9:45-11:15 each morning. For children aged 4 and up we will have an all-ages program that is based on our school-year workshop model. This summer we will revisit the themes from this past year with hands-on exploration, incorporating outdoor time as much as possible! Sign up to volunteer!

10am Worship Announcement  We shifted to a Single Service at South Church at the end of May, which is standard for the summer season, but we will be remaining at one service this coming fall as we begin our time with the new interim minister, Reverend Len De Roche (who will arrive this summer, and begin leading worship in September).

Fall Program Calendar– Believe it or not, we have pinned down a solid draft for next year’s RE program. The OWL sexuality education program is still being finalized, but you can take a look if you are wondering about how the coming fall will unfold! Here’s the link to see our 2019-2020 Program Calendar and you can find detailed program info HERE

Upcoming Themes (2019-2020 Church Year):

  • September 2019: We are a community of Expectation
  • October 2019:  We are a community of Belonging
  • November 2019: We are a community of Attention
  • December2019: We are a community of Awe
  • January 2020: We are a community of Integrity
  • February2020: We are a community of Resilience
  • March2020: We are a community of Wisdom
  • April 2020: We are a community of Liberation
  • May 2020: We are a community of Thresholds

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June ’19 nUUs from Religious Education

Hello all!

It’s JUNE! WOW!

Love and peace to everyone who is finishing school years, graduating, moving up, and otherwise navigating changes– changes can be so wonderful, but also sometimes very hard. I am holding the whole range of those feelings in my heart for each of you.

Upcoming Reminders: Bridging worship this Sunday 10am!! (Please try to make it. This is our annual children’s procession, we will be calling all the new Associates, and celebrating transitions, particularly for our high school graduates.) Recent graduates of 7th grade OWL, please stop by the front desk to pick up your books! Next Sunday, June 9th, will be our Coming of Age Worship– it’s an amazing service, don’t miss it!!

In this post:

  • Sabbatical Announcement!
  • Summer Schedule
  • Volunteer roles for 2019-2020
  • Fall Program Calendar/ Save the dates– it’s up, to help you plan!
  • 10am Worship Announcement

Sabbatical announcement: As you may know, I made the decision to postpone my scheduled sabbatical this past spring due to the unexpected ministerial transition. Things feel like they are steady enough now that I’m going to squeeze in a shortened version from July 1st ~ August 30th. I could use your help to make this happen… If you can, do these three things:  

  1. Pick one Sunday this summer to volunteer with church programming (more info about our summer program below)
  2. And, please Sign up for a fall volunteer team (link provides descriptions of each opportunity!)
  3. Finally, mark your calendars for the following September dates: 
    • Sunday, Sept. 8th: Family Orientation Potluck for all RE families 11:45a-1:30p
    • Sunday, September 22nd: RE Volunteer Training Lunch*, 11:45a-1:30 – *Childcare available if requested
    • 8th grade families: Coming Of Age orientation: Friday, Sept 20th. 6pm at #73 Court St
    • Senior Youth Families: Parent and youth orientation Saturday, Sept 28th. 6pm (youth will stay after for an overnight!)

Summer Program: Religious Education continues through the summer for children of all ages! Our nursery is open, as usual, from 9:45-11:15 each morning. For children aged 4 and up we will have an all-ages program that is based on our school-year workshop model. This summer we will revisit the themes from this past year with hands-on exploration, incorporating outdoor time as much as possible! Sign up to volunteer!

Volunteer Roles for the 2019-2020 church year- are spelled out for you HERE. We are all living really busy lives, I know, but I challenge you to think about a program you’d like to help make happen. It is multi-tasking at it’s best because you are giving a huge gift to the young people of our church, and also stepping into a relationship with co-leaders, children, and parents that may deepen your faith and nourish you in unexpected ways. If you need more convincing, we can sit down for coffee and figure out a role that will meet your availability and compliment your individual gifts.

Fall Program Calendar– Believe it or not, we have pinned down a solid draft for next year’s RE program. Auxiliary programming like OWL and Social Groups are still being finalized, but you can take a look if you are wondering about how the coming fall will unfold! Here’s the link to see our 2019-2020 Program Calendar

10am Worship Announcement Last Sunday we shifted to a Single Service at South Church which is standard for the summer season, but we will be remaining at one service this coming fall as we begin our time with the new interim minister, Reverend Len De Roche (who will arrive this summer, and begin leading worship in September).

I send you all love and hopes for a summer filled with joy.

See you Sunday!

May ’19 nUUs from Religious Education

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Egg Hunt Fun, 2019

Hello Everyone, Happy MAY!!! It is a time of activity to be sure, and I hope you are feeling balanced and joyful in the midst of it all.

Church Sundays and Other Important dates this month:

  • May 3rdSparks and Flames social groups for 5th-8th meet at South Church from 7-9 for our end of year gathering. Youth should bring a flashlight, a favorite snack to share, and wear sneakers! RSVP required
  • May 5thChildren’s Chapel meets at 9 and 11(don’t forget your UU7 mission forms and a few coins for the collection!). Coming of age meet at 11. Senior Youth group meet at 73 Court street at 4pm and there is a trip-prep potluck at 5:30 with parents. 7th grade OWL meets at the main church at 4p.
  • May 11thFamilies Tuugether final gathering of the year at South Church 4:30-8pm. (please RSVP) Kirsten Hunter will lead the parent discussion in the sanctuary exploring the idea of Curiosity in UU parenting.
  • May 12th: Mother’s Day Flower sale! Normal* RE Program day.
  • May 19th: Normal RE Program day. Coming of Age meets with Mentors today. OWL 7 final class – We will be meeting at the South Church Meeting House, and parents should plan to join us at 5pm for the closing.
  • May 26thReturn to one service at 10am! Holiday programming for RE. Coming of Age Wilderness retreat this weekend. No senior youth group this week.
  • June 2ndBridging Worship (Multigenerational service). All Children invited to participate in the Bridging ceremony!
  • June 9thComing of Age worship– 8th grade youth share their Faith Statements. Young people invited to remain in service, but there is also optional RE programming downstairs.

[*Normal RE program day: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade.  OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

2019-2020 RE Program: Are you wondering about the RE program starting this fall? there’s a description here, on the RE website, take a look! We are recruiting team volunteers now, so let us know if you are excited about any particular opportunity to engage!

Family resources for May’s theme: A people of Curiosity*

These resources help parents as they engage the question: “What does it mean to be a family of Curiosity?” In addition to families using them at home, you might also use them to engage parents collectively, for instance in a Parent Circle that meets on Sunday afternoon or mid-week

Family Rituals-

  • From Tapestry of Faith, Faithful Journeys, Taking It Home: https://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/children/journeys/session9/132491.shtml
  • Share Curiosity- Gather as a family before an evening meal. Have each member of the family name something they are curious about or something they learned that day. If you like, light candles as you share. Consider saying candle-lighting words that affirm asking questions, for example, “We give thanks for our curiosity and the answers it brings.” Avoid editing or answering one another’s questions, correcting information, or exchanging dialogue until everyone has shared. Where possible, provide resources and encourage family members to seek answers themselves. It is okay to validate questioning as a process that is as important, if not more important than, determining answers. (To keep this activity popular, avoid pressuring family members to do research every time a “wondering” is shared.)
  • Attention to Curiosity – Pay extra attention to times when your child asks questions, shows curiosity, or otherwise actively seeks to learn. Point out instances of your child acting faithfully in a way that affirms or promotes a free and responsible search for truth and meaning our  — their own search, or others’.

Stories To Read Together

  • The Misadventures of the Family Fletcher (Family Fletcher Series), by Dana Alison Levy. “Follow the lives of the four Fletcher boys, Sam, Jax, Eli, and Frog and their two Dads (the kids are all adopted) over the course of a school year. Each boy struggles with his own hurdles, from finding new interests, to difficulty with friends, to trying out a new school, but it all blends together perfectly in a show of everyday family life.” – review
  • Lailah’s Lunchbox: A Ramadan Story, by Reem Faruqi  (Author), Lea Lyon (Illustrator).

Be Curious Together: From Tapestry of Faith, Faithful Journeys, Taking It Homehttps://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/children/journeys/session9/132491.shtml Choose a topic that interests family members or a question you would like to have answered. Spend an evening in a library or online, learning everything you can about it. Challenge each person to learn at least one new thing (or five, if you are ambitious).

Family Games for Curiosity-

  • Twenty Questions– One person thinks of a person, place or thing, and the others try to guess by asking questions that can be answered yes or no. For example: “Is this a person?” / “Is the person alive?” / “Is it a character from a book?” / “Is it a man?” If someone guesses correctly before twenty questions have been asked and answered, it is their turn to think of a person, place, or thing for others to guess.
  • I Spy — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m344VlHbmXM

Family Movie Night Ideas-

Resources for Parents:

April ’19 nUUs from Religious Education

Hello Everyone, and Happy Spring! April has settled in quickly around here, bright golds and greens are peeking out, and brave spring blooms keep popping up. I hope you are all feeling energized by this change of seasons.

Annual Easter Egg Hunt– Please bring donations of filled easter eggs any time over then next 3 weeks. Our Egg hunt is a group effort– it will be in the sanctuary this year, so big kids can help us hide them immediately after each service!

Attention Children who love to sing: The Children’s Choir is returning, please click to read all about it…

Jen Del Deo and Cat Lyons-
RE Program Staff Superstars!

New RE Staff Member! I would like to take a moment to welcome Jennifer Del Deo to our RE staff team! Jen has been an active volunteer for Religious Education for many years. She has served on the Religious Education Council, and volunteered with many young church programs. For the past several years, Jen has been a big part of our Coming of Age and OWL programs as a program facilitator. She will be supporting those programs in particular as she shifts into a staff role. We are so happy to have her join us!

Church Sundays and Other Important dates this month:

  • April 5th: Sparks and Flames social groups for 5th-8th meet at Bowl O’Rama in Portsmouth from 7-9. RSVP required
  • April 7thChildren’s Chapel meets at 9 and 11(don’t forget your UU7 mission forms and a few coins for the collection!). Coming of age meet with mentors at 11. Senior Youth group meet at 73 Court street at 4pm, at the same time. 7th grade OWL meets at the main church. Parents of Teens are meeting during youth group (4-5:30) at Book and Bar, the topic for this session is: Dating.
  • April 13thFamilies Tuugether at South Church 4:30-8pm. (please RSVP) Kirsten Hunter will lead the parent discussion in the sanctuary exploring the idea of Wholeness in UU parenting.
  • April 14th: PANCAKE BREAKFAST! Please plan to come to church for breakfast. We begin serving at 8am, and continue through 11am. Morning RE programs and OWL 7 meet today- No Senior youth group tonight. Coming of Age will be meeting downstairs at Court Street today.
  • April 21st: Easter Service- Whole congregation. Nursery will be open.
  • April 28th– *Normal Re program day (see below)
  • May 3rdSparks and Flames social groups end of year game of MURDER!! at South Church for 5th-8th grade 7-9. RSVP required

[*Normal RE program day: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade.  OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

RE Program Calendar: Did you know you can check the RE calendar for the WHOLE YEAR, any time you want!? It’s here, on the RE website

Family resources for April’s theme: A people of Wholeness*

These resources help parents as they engage the question: “What does it mean to be a family of Wholeness?” [*drawn from: https://www.soulmatterssharingcircle.com/ ]

Family Adventure Idea: Making Passover Matzo pizza. Honor of the traditional unleavened bread served during the Jewish holiday of Passover this month by making these matzo pizzas. As you eat, you could reflect on the slices of life- which you celebrate, and which are ignored or minimized.  The pizza represents the whole person with intellectual, spiritual, emotional, vocational, financial, physical and social slices.

Stories to Read Together:

  • Meet Jesus, by Lynn Tuttle Gunney Illustrated By: Jane Conteh-Morgan. “Meet Jesus introduces children to Jesus’ life and message of love, kindness, peace and tolerance with simple text and lively, full-color illustrations. This book is a resource for a wide range of liberal religious parents and teachers, appropriate for Unitarian Universalists, progressive Christians, humanists, non-Christians and families blending more than one religious tradition; ideal for church groups and home.” – UUA Bookstore
  • Last Stop on Market Street, by Matt de la Peña (Author), Christian Robinson (Illustrator). “A little boy and his Nana take the bus after church to a shelter. There they help serve food to people living there. The inclusiveness comes in how Nana speaks to CJ her grandson about all the different people they encounter on their journey.”

Family Journey: Can Hunt- We are made whole by helping others. Instead of an Egg Hunt, offer a Can Hunt. Hide the cans the same way that Easter Eggs are hidden, on a lawn. You will need sturdy baskets, or the children bring one or two at a time. Make the journey to donate the cans to a Food Bank. Earth Day is another way to frame this idea, finding time to go walking in nature and picking up any trash you find, or making a new commitment to eliminate single-use plastic… there are lots of possibilities!

Family Movie Night Idea: The Wizard of Oz -Becoming whole: “If I only had a brain, a heart, some courage, a home.” However, don’t forget, the flying monkey scene is pretty scary…

For Parents as Faith Formation Guides:

March ’19 nUUs from Religious Education

South Church Senior Youth leading worship

Hello Everyone, and Happy (almost) March! We might see flowers popping up this month.. amazing how time just keeps rolling along.

There are FIVE Sundays in March! So many opportunities to come share some time together with this vibrant community, and this month you can pick up a new book at the youth run book fair while you grab coffee downstairs. Read below for information about that, and so much more!

Church Sundays and Other Important dates this month:

  • March 3rdChildren’s Chapel meets at 9 and 11(don’t forget your UU7 mission forms and a few coins for the collection!). Coming of age meet at 11. Senior Youth group meet at 73 Court street at 4pm, at the same time 7th grade OWL meets at the main church.
  • March 10th: *Normal Re program day (see below) Parents of Teens are meeting during youth group (4-5:30) at Book and Bar, the topic for this session is: Dating.
  • March 15th: Sparks and Flames social groups for 5th-8th meet at South Church for Church CHOPPED! competition – get ready to cook!
  • March 16th: Families Tuugether at South Church 4:30-8pm. (please RSVP) Kirsten Hunter will lead the parent discussion in the sanctuary exploring the idea of Journey in parenting. 
  • March 17th: *Normal Re program day (see below)
  • March 24th– *Normal Re program day (see below) Parents of Teens are meeting during youth group (4-5:30) at Book and Bar, the topic for this session is: Grades/Schoolwork.
  • March 31st– *Normal Re program day (see below)

[*Normal RE program day: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade.  OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

RE Program Calendar: Did you know you can check the RE calendar for the WHOLE YEAR, any time you want!? It’s here, on the RE website

Sundays, March 3rd-24th: The Senior Youth will be hosting a UU Book Fair as a fundraiser for their year end Youth service-learning trip to Birmingham, Alabama

Family resources for March’s theme: A people of Journey

These resources help parents as they engage the question: “What does it mean to be a family of Journey?”

Resource For Parents

UU World Article: New family traditions great suggestions for how to create rituals with and for your children to celebrate your family’s values along your shared spiritual journey.

Resources for the Whole Family (Ideas to explore the theme of Journey)

Family Adventure Idea:Take a Pilgrimage! (Journey Out): What places would be considered pilgrimages in your family? A special bench in a park where you shared news of a new family member? A place where a pet is buried? A National Park where a child made their first big hike? Name these places as places of pilgrimage for your family.

Story To Read Together:

Journey, Quest, Return –A Wordless Trilogy by Aaron Becker. Share all three. They are wordless so use it as a silent moving picture book. Links to each book:

Family Movie Night Idea:

Lion King (G) . Theme Connection: The journey of life is a circle of birth, life and death.

Family Resource for Marking the end of the journey of life: A really helpful video exploring how to navigate grief and conversations about death with children. I recommend parents preview the content, but it is then a great thing to watch together.

When Families Grieve – Sesame Street

February ’19 nUUs from Religious Education

Our Service Learning class learning about Immigration from guest activist Maggie Fogarty.

Greetings and Salutations everyone!

Well, just like that it’s February. This short month is always a crazy whirlwind with school vacations, and fewer overall days, but there is some really excited stuff happening at church this month, so take a few minutes and read through the news below, and we’ll see you some Sunday soon!

Church Sundays and Other Important dates this month:

  • February 3rd: Children’s Chapel meets at 9 and 11(don’t forget your UU7 mission forms and a few coins for the collection!). Children’s choir second rehearsal at 10:15-10:50. Last class for 5th grade OWL. Coming of age meet at 11. Special guest in Senior Youth group today, and a parents of teens gathering happening concurrent to youth group (4-5:30) at Book and Bar. AND- there is a Tea Talk in our Sanctuary from 2-4 this Sunday, hosted by the Black Heritage Trail- exploring the topic of Land, Wealth and Policies of Marginalization. 
  • February 10th: *Normal Re program day (see below) Love Fest worship service with Children’s Choir at 9am! Parents of Teens are meeting during youth group (4-5:30) at Book and Bar, topic: teen independence and parent anxiety around teen independence.
  • February 9th: Families Tuugether at South Church 4:30-8pm. (please RSVP) Kirsten Hunter will lead the parent discussion in the sanctuary exploring trust in parenting. 
  • February 17th: Multi-Generational service today led by the senior youth! All children welcome and encouraged to attend. We will have a art and reading room downstairs for children who do not want to stay in the sanctuary, and worship resources for children who stay.
  • February 24th– All-ages RE Program (Feb Vacation week)
  • March 3rdChildren’s Chapel meets at 9 and 11. Coming of age meet with mentors at 11. Senior Youth group and 7th grade OWL meet at 4-5:30p.

[*Normal RE program day: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade.  OWL for 5th grade is currently meeting at 9:30 most Sundays. OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

RE Program Calendar: Did you know you can check the RE calendar for the WHOLE YEAR, any time you want!? It’s here, on the RE website 🙂

FYI: Shared Plate Voting starts now! Our congregation will be voting on which organizations will receive shared plate collections in the coming church year. Each member gets to vote for 5 orgs. For information about the 53 nominees: click here. You can vote at church any Sunday this month, OR here’s the link to vote ONLINE:   https://southchurchuu.wufoo.com/forms/x1wg8e2a0i1phgt/ Children at South Church will be learning about the finalists and voting for a Children’s chapel recipient next month!

Cross Roads House is looking for adult volunteers
They are kicking off our 10th session of Ready to Work at Crossroads House- a program designed to help residents optimize their success on the job market. Right now, they are looking for volunteers for one or both of our upcoming sessions:

  • Thursday Feb 21st 5:30-7pm: Resumes
  • Thursday Feb 28th 5:30-7pm: Interview Q&A

You don’t need to have a lot experience in resume writing or interviewing to be an excellent volunteer. A genuine desire to listen, empathize, encourage someone’s growth, and support them in the pursuit a healthy and productive career is all you need! EMAIL: Jenna Cooke <jennalcooke@gmail.com> if you are available to help! Read more on our church facebook page

COMING IN MARCH: The Senior Youth will be hosting a UU Book Fair as a fundraiser for their year end learning trip to General Assembly in Spokane, WA. Don’t miss it!

Family resources for February’s theme: A people of Trust

These resources help parents/guardians as they engage the question: “What does it mean to be a family of Trust?” 

With Your Kids(Ideas to engage Trust as a Family):

Family Adventure Idea:

Obstacle Course (indoors or outdoors) Trust Building: Create an obstacle course of a tunnel (under a table or bush with a blanket covering), over monkey bars, across “Lava” on stepping stones (pieces of paper), hanging from a rope, balancing on a curb, blindfolded partner walks around trees, etc. Invite your family to compete on the Obstacle Course, with points for:

  •  “Helpful comments through the tunnel,”
  • “Family problem solving through the Lava,”
  • “Trying again after falling off the balance beam,”
  • “Trying something new,” etc. 
  • Keep track of helpful points and make up some as your family goes along.
  • The points are trust points, so invite your family to enjoy how much they built trust.
Games:

Rock Game – as suggested by Liza Earle-Center, Director of Spiritual Exploration, UU Church of Montpelier, VT: “On night hikes I used to have a wide assortment of rocks, small, medium, smooth, rough… I’d pass one to each child as we sat close together in the dark.  They’d spend a couple minutes holding their rock as I guided them through really getting to know it… then I’d collect them all, and would slowly pass them to one person, slowly one at a time they would get handed around the circle.  When yours came to you, you kept it (while still passing the others to your neighbor. Eventually everyone has their rock back and is excited to have found it again!  It takes trusting that you really DO know your rock well.   This might be played in the daylight with blindfolds or an invitation to close their eyes as they pass the rocks.”

The Zipper Game ( a Trust Game which doesn’t involve risking a fall) Suggested by Soul Matters member Liza Earle-Centers, UU Congregation of Montpelier, VT https://www.scholastic.com/teachers/blog-posts/brent-vasicek/building-trust-in-a-classroom/

Trust Fall: Divide your family into pairs of roughly equivalent height and weight. In each pair, have one person stand directly in front of their partner, with their back turned toward them. Tell the person in front to close their eyes and fall backwards toward their partner. Their partner will catch them under the arms and take their weight gently to the floor, or lightly place the, back up to standing. Have the partners reverse roles.

(Trust Fall Fail – as a warning if you decide to try one!):

Stories To Read Together:

Belonging – Fannie Barrier Williams: “Fannie Barrier Williams helped start a home for girls in Chicago, and she started a center where people could live together, no matter the color of their skin. She was part of the group that started the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (the NAACP), along with Frederick Douglass, Ida Wells Barnett, Frances Watkins Harper, and W.E.B. DuBois. Fannie also worked with suffragists like Susan B. Anthony, helping women get the chance to vote. Because back then, remember, people thought that men were better than women. Women couldn’t own property or have a bank account or vote in elections.” –  from the story. https://www.uua.org/re/tapestry/children/journeys/session4/132836.shtml

Nothando’s Journey by Jill Apperson Manly (Author), Alyssa Casey (Illustrator) Explores Trusting in one’s abilities. “NOTHANDO’S JOURNEY is a journey in self-discovery, told through the eyes of a young girl named Nothando. The book tells of the Reed Festival, an important celebration in Nothando’s country of Swaziland in Southern Africa. Nothando and her brother venture into the unknown hills, in order to get to the festival on time. As Nothando explores the hills of Swaziland, she visits with various animals–Nothando moves freely with the animals and begins to become comfortable with who she is.” – Amazon. The video is great! Book: https://www.amazon.com/Nothandos-Journey-Jill-Apperson-Manly/dp/0615892353/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1543337146&sr=8-1&keywords=nothando%27s+journey . Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-ZWfw2kknA

Family App Ideas:

My PlayHome: Theme Connection: Our families are places of trust. You can build a family like your own. “Parents need to know that My PlayHome is a highly interactive, dollhouse-style app for kids. Kids can choose from five “types” of family members in generic white, Asian, and African-American skin tones; the characters include moms, dads, boys, girls, and babies. Kids can add all 15 characters (each has a different outfit, hairstyle, etc.) to their homes, allowing for flexibility in creating a variety of family types. They can create a mixed-race family, one with two (or three) moms, or one with only sons.” – Common Sense Media https://www.commonsensemedia.org/app-reviews/my-playhome

Family Movie Night Ideas: 

Black History Month: Here are several movie suggestions which bring to life the paradox of distrust and trust which has marked the past history of racism in America. https://www.charlotteobserver.com/living/health-family/moms/article61781437.html

The Muppet Movie (G) Kermit has to trust in himself in order to undertake the road trip to Hollywood. “Parents need to know that The Muppet Movie is a pretty likeable road trip romp with singable songs, but with some guns and slapstick violence.” – Common Sense Review https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/the-muppet-movie

Ruby’s Studio: The Feelings Show  (NR)- Strong emotions need to be understood and reflected on in order for children to trust themselves and their feelings. “Parents need to know that Ruby’s Studio: The Feelings Show walks kids through the basics of coping with a myriad of emotions, including sadness, frustration, and anger in a unique format that incorporates puppets, animation, and advice from a panel of youngsters. The show’s vibrant hostess creates an inviting atmosphere that appeals to kids’ imaginations and encourages them to express themselves to parents just as the cast members talk to her.” – Common Sense Media https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/rubys-studio-the-feelings-show

How to Train Your Dragon (PG)-The boy, Hiccup, and his dragon, Night Fury, need to learn to trust each other. Vikings and dragons, in a moving Pixar movie. Some scary parts means it might not be appropriate for under 7 years old. https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/how-to-train-your-dragon

Garrett’s Gift (G)

Garrett’s Gift is a thoughtful, inspirational look at the history of famous inventor Garrett Morgan and the origins of his idea for the traffic light. Kids will learn about his childhood, where the clumsy boy was often daydreaming, and how his offbeat way of looking at things led to a significant advancement in safety. There are a few moments of near-accidents that provide the backdrop for Morgan’s ideas. It offers historical information about significant achievements by African Americans and a discussion of where ideas come from. -Amazon . https://www.amazon.com/Garretts-Gift-Queen-Latifah/dp/097784871X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1454341659&sr=8-1&keywords=Garrett%27s%20Gift&tag=viglink125846-20

For You (Support for Parents as Faith Formation Guides):

Being Brave Is Stepping Backward and Trusting Our Children – On Being  “As parents, we spend a lot of time worrying about our children. We fret about the degree to which our parenting affects their development and well-being. Yet children are actually emancipated individuals who would spare us the insecurities of raising them, if we would trust them…” https://onbeing.org/blog/being-brave-is-stepping-backward-and-trusting-our-children/

The Reality Wall– Michelle Richards, UU World Magazine: Reflections for parents on the balance of trust in an ideal world and a feeling of betrayal when reality bites. https://www.uuworld.org/articles/reality-wall

Helping Children Understand “White Lies”– Michelle Richards, UU World Magazine: Helping parents reflect on truth telling and the implications of a lie. https://www.uuworld.org/articles/understand-white-lies

How to Nurture Your Child’s Intuition (self-trust): https://themulberryjournal.com/writing-collective/how-to-nurture-intuition

January ’19 nUUs from Religious Education

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Chili Fest Crew making it look easy! Thank you EVERYONE who participated!

Happy New Year everyone ♥

I am guessing most of you have heard the news at this point that our ministers are departing, January 20th will be their last Sunday. I know that with this news comes a lot of feelings and questions. It will take us some time to figure out some of the details in our next chapter, but we are a mighty family, and the best way forward is one that we all build together. Our congregation is strong and poised to burst into our larger community in incredible new ways. The collective heart of South Church is blindingly bright, so let’s shine, ok?

I invite you to think about this community of ours as practice space. We are working toward the vision of our principles, we are nourished by our sources, and we are bound in our covenant– our commitment to one another. Some of us are just starting to learn what that means, others of us have been practicing for years, and have become incredible mentors, and all of us continue to grow- with every joyful celebration, and every challenging loss. Our power comes from all of this. From those who are regrouping, those who are reaching, and from those who have found the next ledge from which they can reach back and help the rest of us forward.

Parents, you have an extra challenge right now, because you are navigating your own emotions, and are also tasked with helping your children to process this moment for themselves. Many of our kids have only ever known Reverend Lauren and Reverend Chris as their ministers, and seeing them leave is hard. When we shared space in children’s chapel last week, some children shared that they were feeling sad, confused, some felt this wasn’t enough time, or worried that other people at church would be leaving too, and some mentioned that they will miss Jack, and Ben, and Aliyah. They also expressed excitement for Reverend Lauren’s new job, and for the new adventures the Jablonski-Smith family have in front of them, and honestly, some kids seemed ok, and at peace with this transition.

There is no right way to feel in moments like this, and every one of us is different, but if you have not done so already, it might help to find a peaceful moment to ask your children about this coming change, listen to their feelings, and invite them to ask any questions they might have. Remember that you don’t have to have all the answers, our kids can surprise us in their ability to understand when we say we don’t know something. They also appreciate, “I’m going to think about that, can we talk more later?”

I hope that you all know I am here if there is anything I can help with. I have deep faith in the potential of our community, and I have some solid experience to draw on in this moment, so don’t hesitate to reach out if I can help in any way I am able. I would also like to invite everyone to share some messages and favorite memories to include in a journal we will give to Chris and Lauren at the end of the day on January 20th. I know it isn’t a lot of time, but consider sending along a message, memory, or drawing– you can email it to me and I will print it out, you can mail it or bring it to church (before the 20th, 4×6 paper or smaller, please) or you can grab the journal and write/draw directly into it this coming Sunday or next.

Finally, if you did not make it to worship this past Sunday, I think you may find some comfort in Reverend Chris’ story, and Reverend Lauren’s Sermon. They will both be on the podcast soon <–click here for that link. The Reverends are also mailing out a paper letter to your children directly, but you can find that letter HERE, as well.

Church Sundays and Other Important dates this month:

  • January 12th: Families Tuugether at South Church 4:30-8pm. (please RSVP) Reverend Lauren and Reverend Chris will be there for the parent discussion.
  • January 13th: Reverend Lauren and Chris will be hosting an open-to-all conversation about the current transition this Sunday after the second service (12:10pm- Childcare available in nursery). It is a *Regular RE program day. (see below)
  • January 20th: MLK Weekend. Children’s choir starts today! (SEE BELOW for more info), Spirit play, elementary, and 6-7th grade classes meet- No OWL or Senior Youth today. Extended social hours to say farewell to our ministers.
  • January 25th- Sparks and Flames social groups for 5th-8th grade go iceskating at Puddledock, 7-9pm!
  • January 27th: It is a *Regular RE program day. (see below) and the Annual Congregational Meeting will be held in the sanctuary at 12:15- childcare is available in the nursery. Coming of Age meets at 4:30-5:30 with their mentors today
  • February 3rd Children’s Chapel (don’t forget your UU7 mission forms and a few coins for the collection!). 5th grade OWL concludes today, with parents joining at 10:15.

[*Normal RE program day: Both services include Spirit Play and Theme workshops for grades 1-5. 11am worship also included: 6-7th grade religious exploration and Coming of Age for 8th grade.  OWL for 5th grade is currently meeting at 9:30 most Sundays. OWL for 7th grade and Senior Youth meet on Sunday evenings at 4-5:30 pm.]

Children’s Choir! Children of all ages are invited to join two amazing music makers, Pam Felber and Sally Hirshberg, for our first of two children’s choir offerings this year. Rehearsals will be: Sundays between worship services from 10:15-10:50- Jan. 20, 27, and Feb. 3rd, and on the day of the performance from 8:15-8:45. The Children’s choir will Perform during the ‘Love Fest’ worship on Sunday, Feb. 10th at 9 and 11am. For more information, or to RSVP: Sally Hirshberg at salsings@hotmail.com

Family resources for January’s theme: A people of Possibility

These resources help parents/guardians as they engage the question: “What does it mean to be a family of Possibility?” 

With Your Kids (Ideas to engage Mystery as a Family)

Family Adventure Ideas

  • Day Trip to Boston!! There is an incredible exhibit at the ICA right now, William Forsythe has created work that engages children and adults in deep and playful ways- Possibility plays a large role in the experience, and I highly recommend it! The exhibit is showing through February 21st. https://www.icaboston.org/exhibitions/william-forsythe-choreographic-objects
  • 30 Days of Love Family Calendar: Practice the Possibility of kindness and love with this calendar of family activities, one for each day  from Mid-January until Valentine’s Day. https://resouthchurchuu.files.wordpress.com/2019/01/eb378-30DOL2018AllAgesCalendar.pdf
  • Create a New Year’s Resolution together
    • Focus on the Possibilities….
    • One thing I want to learn more about…
    • One thing I want to stop being afraid of…
    • I want to improve my …
    • I want to spend more time….
    • I want to spend less time…
    • I want to be more…
  • Game: Play “Sorry,” the board game. “Sorry! is marketed for two to four players, ages six and older. The game title comes from the many ways in which a player can negate the progress of another, while issuing an apologetic “Sorry!” – from the game description. Practice your humility as you are jumped over and sent back in this classic board game.
  • Books To Read Together:

Family App Ideas

  •  Curious About Me with Curious George (preschool)- (Theme Connection: What are the possibilities of you?)“Curious About Me features preschoolers’ favorite monkey, helping kids create movies that let them think and talk about their own lives and experiences. Kids take photos of themselves, their families, friends, and pets; record audio and video to add to their stories; or create their own art. The movie incorporates these contributions into the stories, which are automatically saved in-app or to the device’s camera roll. Note: It requires quite a bit of storage space to hold all the pictures and videos kids can add to their stories.” – Common Sense Media   https://www.commonsensemedia.org/app-reviews/curious-about-me

Family Movie Night Ideas

  •  Ratatouille (G) Theme Connection: Celebrating the impossible possible, even in fantasy. “Parents need to know that, like all of Pixar’s other films, Ratatouille includes nuanced humor (about the French, haute cuisine, food critics, and so on) and references aimed directly at adults. Kids will miss most of these references but most likely will still enjoy the plot and animal characters. Not surprisingly for an animated kids’ movie, the protagonist, Linguini, is an orphan — although at least he’s a young adult and not a child. There’s some moderate peril involving the rats and weapon-wielding humans that may frighten sensitive and younger viewers; the sewer sequence is particularly tense and potentially scary, as is the gun-toting grandma. There are a few mild insults, such as “stupid” and “loser,” and one “hell.”” – Common Sense Review  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/ratatouille
  • A Goofy Movie (G) Theme Connection: The possibility of being wrong and restoring a relationship. “Free of the pressures that sometimes smother the big Disney releases, this movie has a refreshingly casual feel, with some sly humor, even daring to poke fun at Disney itself. The teen characters are contemporary without the prepackaged feel of other Disney productions (like “The New Mickey Mouse Club”), and there are lively songs performed by Tevin Campbell. It’s a shame that the G rating might scare off the film’s optimal audience, the 10-14 age group. If you can persuade them to take a look, they will find much to enjoy and identify with. At the center of the story is Max, struggling through the torturous insecurity and self-consciousness of adolescence. Like all teens, he is humiliated by his father’s goofiness. But the movie’s great joke is that in this case, his father is not just goofy, he is Goofy, the Goof of all Goofs, the Uber-Goof!” – Common Sense Media.  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/a-goofy-movie
  • Gym Teacher: The Movie (age 6+) Theme Connection: The possibility of change. “Parents need to know that this made-for-TV movie touches on themes like teamwork, perseverance, and self-perception and examines what it means to be a winner. There’s some poor sportsmanship and bullying (tweens tease a classmate, putting him down and throwing things at him), but it could prompt family discussions about respecting others and being tolerant of differences…” – Common Sense Media   https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/gym-teacher-the-movie 

For You  (Support for Parents as Faith Formation Guides)